CREATE A LIFE YOU LOVE WITH
Selfish AF Energy
There came a point in my life where I had two choices: Keep living the life I had — or figure my shit out and create a life I actually loved.I chose the second one. This book is everything I learned along the way.
And my life dramatically changed when I decided to become selfish as fuck. For most of my life, I was a people pleaser constantly seeking love approval and validation from everyone and everything outside of me. I poured my energy into people in situations only to lose myself in the process. I was stuck in survival. It wasn’t until I had my fourth son, a high-risk pregnancy and a six-month-long stay in the NICU, that everything cracked open. That season forced me to face the truth. I couldn’t keep living like this and no one was coming to save me.
If I wanted a different life, I was going to have to do something different. It was time I started choosing myself. It was time to start creating a life that I actually loved. It was time to become selfish as fuck.
This is selfish as fuck energy.
When you live your life in Selfish as Fuck energy, you learn to fill your own cup so fully that the people around you receive from the overflow. You are no longer giving from a place of lack. You are no longer abandoning yourself to keep everyone else happy. And you are no longer living your life on autopilot, constantly searching for the next thing, the next milestone, or some future moment when you’ll finally allow yourself to be happy.
You begin to understand, at your deepest core, that life isn’t happening to you — it’s happening for you. You become unafraid to be authentically you. To want what you want. To trust yourself. To live fully in your purpose without needing everyone else to understand or approve of it.
You stop searching outside of yourself for love, validation, permission, and worthiness—and you learn how to give those things to yourself. You fill your own cup. You choose yourself. And from that fullness, you have more to give — not less. That’s Selfish as Fuck energy.
Real Reviews From
My Readers
"Loving this book very much! I love how the author is real and raw. She's gentle but tells it like it really is. Her "homework" as I call it is very easy to follow and it's not overwhelming. I don't know much about this author, but I bet if I met her in real life we'd be really good friends."
- Mama G.
"So happy I finally gave this book a chance! You have to be willing to do the work to make yourself happy and this is such a perfect guide to achieve that. So many useful tools and passages to really find happiness within. As a newly divorced mom, I am so grateful for resources like this!
- Sunshine Mama
"Do it! BUY THIS! You will not be disappointed. Hands down has saved my mental sanity; I was losing myself and this book is exactly what I needed to start loving me again and being okay with being selfish AF!"
- Amanda
